How do I know this is for me or my family?

Whether you’re planning ahead intentionally or responding to a recent diagnosis, advanced care planning is more important than many people realize. It brings clarity and comfort to yourself and the people who care about you.

This is a way to show your family what a good death looks like, which is the last good thing you can do for them.

Do these plans include legal documents?

While this process helps you understand what matters to you and prepares you to make informed decisions, legal documents must be completed with an attorney. A MOLST / POLST will need a physician’s signature, and some people find that a notary gives them peace of mind for other documents like Health Care Proxy.

I’m uncomfortable with this topic. Can you help address this?

Yes. Many people feel overwhelmed or unsure when addressing the topics of death and dying. Sometimes it can feel that doulas are speaking a different language. That said, my approach is structured and guided by your comfort level. There is a lot to cover and a lot to think about and work on after our sessions are done.

What if I have complicated family dynamics?

Planning is valuable in these situations because it creates both direction and reduces confusion for loved ones. Discomfort around death and dying is very common for children, adults, and adult children. You can share as much—or as little—as you choose about your relationships. The process provides structure and support so you don’t have to navigate these topics alone.

This sounds interesting, but I’m not ready to pay for these services. Can I learn more first?

Of course. You’re also welcome to schedule a no-pressure conversation to ask questions, get a feel for the process, and decide whether it’s the right fit. Everything we speak about is confidential.